Hello everyone, I just recently got the game and I have been having a blast balancing trade deficits and all.
One thing that intrigued me greatly about the game was its diplomacy, which seems in some areas possibly the best incarnation of diplomacy in gaming (the crisis management in particular). However, I have yet to fully grasp all factors pertaining to it and I would love to get some advice if at all possible.
Initially, I thought that the number of diplomats available imposed a limit for the number of diplomatic requests I can issue in one turn. As S-P, I have 6 diplomats, which I thought meant I can only issue 6 diplomatic actions a turn. Turns out that the number regenerates only twice a year, from what I understood.
So how does one cultivate relationships with several countries in the long run? I figured that I should prioritize and focus on France, Tuscany, and the Papal States. But I have been getting rejections commonly on the basis of being a threat to peace for some reason (I mean yes S-P has a professional army but calm down). Am I right to prioritize a few countries as opposed to try and raise approval across the board?
Another problem I am facing is that my relationship with everyone is degrading by 1 point each turn. I reduced the tariffs from 33% to 25% thinking that it would have a positive impact but apparently it didn't. What are the reasons behind a steady decline? Mind you, I did not build up my military or have done any military action.
The only possible reasons I can think of are that I banned child work, raised the issue of Italian unity, and have been doing colonial actions in Somalia (in no one's SoI). Do we know if any or all of them contribute to reduced friendliness? Are there any other reasons?
Thanks a lot for the help!