Hi!
First, sorry if i sounded "too personal"... i had a bad morning at work and besides, this is not my first language so its difficult for me to express some things adequately
Second, thumbs up for your high ethics in life and play...
but IMHO this is no reason to bash the game for having an option as standard on all video games as "saving and reloading".
Saying that you "loathe and detest" and "can never understand, for the life of me, why it was ever included in the game" and that you "cant think of any PC wargames I've enjoyed over the years" with a function as standard as this seems a little heavy handed to me and quite unfair with AACW.
Specially as this is and
optional feature and a very handy one, for newbies, veterans, developers and "cheaters" alike.
Having this feature does not impede you to play the game as you like.
Not having this feature (as seems you would like to) will impede a lot of people to play the game as they like...
All lose, no gain IMHO
Regards!